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5 Great Deal Of Facts For Women Dealing With Commitment Phobic Men 

What makes men afraid of commitment? Even if different reasons can be given for the question above, how really a man say that he’s not into commitment? What roll does fear play in men who are not yet ready for commitment despite stable job and right age?  Why do they need to enter into a relationship and end up hurting the partner because of fear of commitment? Why is it hard to understand the fear of commitment from men?  These are obstacles that many women face while dating in Dallas or dating in Houston.

Fear of commitment is one of the most common fears that affect majority of people in their lives.  This kind of fear can have a great impact on careers and their promotion potential.   People with this kind of fear  usually feel that they are being trapped in one situation, helpless and afraid.

Some men are considered cowarards when it comes to commitment.  They are considered the active avoider. The term also means that between man and woman, the woman asks and demands for more in the relationship while the man is just passive and wants nothing but LESS in the relationship. Men are more likely to withhold emotional involvement.  This causes problems in the relationship. These men are also establishing boundaries and limitations for closeness and intimacy. This fear of commitment is common, but for the person to know that he has it, it will actually take time.  This usually means that many relationships have failed. Men with such a fear are often misunderstood. It is very important for women to know the reasons why men choose not to commit:

1. Past bad experience. This is actually one of the major factors, not only for men afraid of commitment, but also for fear of commitment in general. Such experience is mostly about multiple failed relationships. So, what actually happens here is that trust is slowly broken until it comes to a point that you are afraid of committing.  For these men getting themselves involved in the relationship will make the situation harder for them.

2. The idea of ONE WOMAN syndrome.  Naturally, men are capable of trying lots of girls at the same time. Men cannot actually deny it, they always love to date as many women as possible.  So facing a COMMITMENT can make them go crazy because of fear that it’s the end of dating multiple girls.

3. Lack of personal freedom. This is very true to all and majority of people are getting practical these days .As practicality is common, people are very much into securing their own needs first before they can settle into a long term relationship. They do not want anyone to mind and control their own lives and even their behaviours. So commitment for them feels like being in control by others.  That’s why it’s a NO-NO for them.

4. They feel inferior.  Some men feel inferior.  These men are afraid that if they express their love and desire for the women, the women might not be satisfied  with how they express themselves.

5. Money issues. When it comes to money problems, some men are proud.  This pride makes some men  not to want to ask for help, Some men make it a point that they can provide everything for the women and for the family. When men are not financially stable, they never dare to commit to a long term relationship.

Men afraid of commitment find so many easons not to dwell on being involved in a relationship. But it’s not healthy.   The only person to help you the most is  YOU.  Take  some time to think about the reasons and how fear started. Remember, relationships are about comfort and love and not about being trapped. Start to establish friendship because love starts  with friendship. Being yourself is also being true to the friendship. As such, you feel wholly accepted as who you are.

 

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